Young Family

Welcome to the first
step in your parenting

Evolution

When we choose to parent with intention and awareness we create connection within our families.

Create Your Ideal Vision for Your Family

We feel like we should have it all figured out: we know how to raise children because we've already been raised... right? 

But when we get into the day-to-day challenges that come with being a parent we often feel lost, doubtful, or overwhelmed.

We don't know what to do because nobody tells us what children really need. What we still need. What every person needs.

Repair

Develop a practice of self-acceptance and self-forgiveness as you embrace your whole self

Confidence

Reconnect to your intuition, your voice, and your truth as you create a trusting relationship with your children

Security

Experience evidence of respect, affection, cooperation, and peace within your family

Right Now Is the Right Time

To Start a New Path

Despite whatever challenges you are facing right now, there is opportunity change.

Depending on your current reality, you may find it hard to believe that change is possible.  I promise you, it is.

No parent starts their journey with all the answers, with everything perfect for their child.  We learn, we plan, we aim to be the best that we can be, and somehow old habits and patterns take over our best intentions.

I'm Allyn Miller, and I became a Parent Coach because I knew my kids deserved more from me. What I've learned since becoming a Parent Coach is that my connection to my self determines the strength of my parenting power.

My intuition, my desires, my values, and my voice are what shape my relationship with my children... and who they will grow up to be.  

My goal as a Parent Coach is to help you rediscover the strength and power you already have, so that you can lead your children and your family through love, compassion, and joy. I want you to thrive as a parent, and as a person.

 

I believe every child deserves the deepest nurturing throughout their life.  I'm here to help you become the parent that your child needs you to be.  If you're ready to begin the shift in your parenting, contact me today!

Mother and Daughter

The Empowered Parent

This program is meant for you if:

  • You fear your children are not feeling the love and acceptance they deserve.

  • You are stuck in a cycle of frustration, blame and regret.

  • You dread daily routines like meals and bedtime.

  • You feel unheard and unappreciated by how your children respond to you.

  • You struggle to understand your children's behavior and big emotions.

  • You desire more peace and calm in your family.

  • You envision cooperation without punishment.

  • You wish for open communication with your children, especially as they grow older.

  • You want to feel confident as a parent.

Program Overview

Weekly Sessions

  1. Orientation

  2. Intentions

  3. Ten Pillars of Empowered Parenting

  4. Attachment Science

  5. Nervous System Science

  6. Mindsight and Brain Science

  7. Emotional Intelligence

  8. Empowered Conversations

  9. Boundaries

  10. Anger and Aggression

  11. Play

  12. Ongoing Transformation

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Do you want to reclaim your power and see your children thrive?

"The days are long, but the years are short."

Maybe it's just a phase. Maybe your child will grow out of it.
Maybe it'll be easier when they get older, when they go to school, when they have more friends, when they have more activities, when they sleep better, when they eat better, when they understand more, when... when... when...

When will you get to enjoy your children?

When will you feel proud of yourself as a parent?

When will it get better?

When you commit to making the change.

You can't get back those years, those days, those minutes when you wished you had done it differently.

You can go forward in your purpose with a plan to guide you.

You can have a family created in love, respect, and happiness.

You can decide, in this moment.

Are you ready

to begin your transformation?

When you schedule your complimentary Insight Session we’ll talk about what’s happening for you and your family and how I can support you as a Parent Coach. 

 

I’ll explain my approach and answer any questions you have to see what option will work best to help you right now. 

 

If you decide we are a good fit we can schedule our first session to begin your evolution. If not, I can offer other resources or suggestions for support. 

What You'll Get

  • Lifetime access to the online course outlined below, with instructional videos, workbooks, additional articles and resources

  • Weekly 1-hour sessions for live coaching with recordings

  • Ongoing community support and accountability through a private member group right inside the Child Connection website 

        (No Facebook distractions here!)

  • Direct email support from me between sessions

  • On-demand video chat support via Marco Polo (additional fee)

Parent yourself to see the results in your child.

Course Syllabus

1: Welcome + Orientation

Here we get to know each other, we set out the logistics, and we create our coaching container so each person is ready for success in the face of challenge.

2: Setting Your Intentions as an Empowered Parent

This week we align your compass so you know where you're heading for the rest of the journey. We will identify your potential blind spots so that you remain fully supported and fueled for our work together.

3: The 10 Pillars of Empowered Parenting

In this module we will explore the essential components of being an empowered parent. We will take a look at where we've come from and use that understanding to shape how we move forward.

4: Making Sense of Attachment Science

Here we take advantage of the latest neuroscience research to understand our relationship to our emotions. Then we learn how to move into a secure connection within ourselves, intentionally create that connection with our children, and ultimately teach them to develop their own secure connection.

5: Making Sense of Nervous System Science

This week we continue into the realm of science, looking at how our nervous systems operate to keep us safe. We will practice several tools to help you chill out, help your child when they flip their lid, and repair the relationship when it all goes off the rails.

6: Making Sense of Mindsight and Brain Science

Don't get put off by all the science here, let's call it evidence-based practices. In this module we use the science to truly see our children for the gorgeous, unique individuals they are. We learn to see beyond the fits, the tantrums, and all the behaviors as we explore our children's perspective and inner landscape.

7: Making Sense of Emotional Intelligence

This is the secret sauce. This week we dive into feelings, needs, and beliefs and how to embrace them all through empathy.

8: Empowered Conversations

Here we discover your voice. Have you muted yourself to try and keep the peace? Do you have to scream and shout to get anyone to listen? This week we craft a script that you can use to speak your voice, get heard by others, and see positive results in action.

9: Establishing Boundaries from Family Values

In this module we create your customized family plan based on what you believe matters most. We will practice the ultimate parenting tool, the PEACE process, which brings together everything we've learned throughout the course.

10: Exploring Anger and Healthy Aggression

This week alone drastically changed my life. We gain a new perspective on the benefits of anger and acceptable ways to show aggression. Yes, we get to let it out rather than stuff it down, and teach our children how to do the same.

11: Playful Parenting and Storytelling

Here we take a grand adventure into the many forms of play, beyond toys and pretend, and how to ease the transition from serious grownup to playful parent.

12: Your Personal Transformation

This is really a checkpoint, not the end of the road. We take this time to look back at where we started and celebrate the amazing accomplishments we've achieved along the way. We also renew our commitment to our empowered parenting, and set off to continue the journey with the compass and map that you've created for yourself and your family.